Hey, good morning everyone!
Did you read DeafBlind moment #3801? I hope so, because this is a continuation of that blog.
About 6 years ago, I was minding the Salvation Army Christmas Kettle at a mall in my hometown.
This is interesting “work,” I just sit, on my walker, for a couple of hours, watching people walk by. Being DeafBlind, I don’t strike up conversations with passersby, I usually smile, saying/signing thank you…
During one shift, a woman approaches me, and starts talking. I gesture I am Deaf, index finger tapping ear then chin.
The lady searches in her handbag, finds a pen and paper, writes “I’m Wendy.” Reading this was challenging, hard to see.
I could tell, her body language was obvious, that she was getting frustrated; the act of approaching me was, trying to communicate, searching for pen & paper all added up to “why did I bother to stop?”
At the same time, my smile was faltering, my posture sagged, I couldn’t query this woman: “how do I know you?”
I was about to give her my device, we could communicate with that, when she gave up; with a forced smile and a terse wave Wendy left.
Who was Wendy? Would Craig ever find out?
To be continued… Immediately!
Confusion, questions, racked my brain like pigeons fighting over a dropped cookie crumb: who was Wendy?
It wasn’t until much later, when I noticed a Facebook Messenger ping from Wendy.
“Hi, Craig,” she wrote, “that was me who stopped by to say hello at the mall today. I wanted to say Hi and welcome you back to BC.”
Aha! Wendy & I went to the same elementary school, we were in Grade 2 together!
Mystery solved!
I replied back warmly and life continued.
I will compare these situations in the next blog, yet, I hope you noticed that Intervenor was not mentioned throughout this entire blog.
Stay tuned…

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