Writings about Ataxia, being DeafBlind, family life. The best life can offer!


DeafBlind moment #3802

Hey, good morning everyone!

Did you read DeafBlind moment #3801? I hope so, because this is a continuation of that blog.

About 6 years ago, I was minding the Salvation Army Christmas Kettle at a mall in my hometown.

This is interesting “work,” I just sit, on my walker, for a couple of hours, watching people walk by. Being DeafBlind, I don’t strike up conversations with passersby, I usually smile, saying/signing thank you…

During one shift, a woman approaches me, and starts talking. I gesture I am Deaf, index finger tapping ear then chin.

The lady searches in her handbag, finds a pen and paper, writes “I’m Wendy.” Reading this was challenging, hard to see.

I could tell, her body language was obvious, that she was getting frustrated; the act of approaching me was, trying to communicate, searching for pen & paper all added up to “why did I bother to stop?”

At the same time, my smile was faltering, my posture sagged, I couldn’t query this woman: “how do I know you?”

I was about to give her my device, we could communicate with that, when she gave up; with a forced smile and a terse wave Wendy left.

Who was Wendy? Would Craig ever find out?

To be continued… Immediately!

Confusion, questions, racked my brain like pigeons fighting over a dropped cookie crumb: who was Wendy?

It wasn’t until much later, when I noticed a Facebook Messenger ping from Wendy.

“Hi, Craig,” she wrote, “that was me who stopped by to say hello at the mall today. I wanted to say Hi and welcome you back to BC.”

Aha! Wendy & I went to the same elementary school, we were in Grade 2 together!

Mystery solved!

I replied back warmly and life continued.

I will compare these situations in the next blog, yet, I hope you noticed that Intervenor was not mentioned throughout this entire blog.

Stay tuned…

Leave a comment

From the blog

About the author

Craig MacLean is DeafBlind with ataxia, a rare condition called CAPOS. He & his wife of 22 years have two sons, the oldest of which has CAPOS as well.

Craig uses American Sign Language to communicate. He is an avid writer, friend, Hot Wheel collector and intervenor advocate.

Craig sits on many committees, boards and associations as a DeafBlind rep. He graduated university with a BA in psychology in 2000.